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Mater, Pater, and Metaphysical Love: A Philosophical Exploration of Being, Value, and Revolt

By Martin Sjardijn 2025

Abstract
This article examines the metaphysical divide between Mater (mother, matter, body) and Pater (father, logos, abstraction) in the Western philosophical tradition, drawing on Aristotle, Julia Kristeva, Luce Irigaray, and Martin Heidegger. It analyzes how this dichotomy has shaped the conceptualization of being, value, and love, and how love, as a semiotic and reciprocal force, can transcend this opposition2. Through Kristeva's concepts of the symbolic and the semiotic, Irigaray's advocacy for feminine transcendence, and Heidegger's Da-sein, a redefinition of metaphysics is proposed in which the body and the chaos of Mater are no longer subordinate but form the foundation of meaning and transcendence.

1 Introduction: A Millennial Divide
The history of Western thought has constructed a fundamental separation between the woman as Mater (mother, matter, body) and the man as Pater (father, logos, abstraction). This opposition is not merely social or biological but metaphysical, touching the core of our understanding of being, value, and love5. While Mater represents the chaotic, living ground of existence, Pater embodies the ordering force of meaning6. This article explores the origins of this divide, its reproduction in philosophical and economic systems, and the potential of love as a liberating force, as proposed by Julia Kristeva and Luce Irigaray, in dialogue with Martin Heidegger's ontology.

2 The Metaphysical Roots: Why Mater is Subordinated
2.1 Aristotle's Legacy
Aristotle laid the foundation for the hierarchical separation between Mater and Pater by
reducing the woman to hyle (passive matter) and associating the man with eidos (active
form)8. This created a metaphysical hierarchy:
● Mater: corporeality, transience, the "lower" nature.
● Pater: spirit, eternity, "civilization".
This dichotomy marginalized the feminine and established a philosophy in which the body
was subordinated to the mind.
2.2 Capital as Abstract Transcendence
The masculine domains of language, law, and money functioned as an escape from
materiality. Money, as metal and abstract value, transformed life into exchange value14. The
womb became a commodity, yet its raw reality—birth, blood, death—remained elusive to the
capitalist system. Julia Kristeva describes this as the abject real, which disrupts the illusion of
control: "Capitalism commodifies everything, but the abject real (bodily fluids, death) is
unsellable chaos".

3 Kristeva's Revolt: Love as Semiotic Disruption
Julia Kristeva offers an escape from this binary trap through two concepts:
1. The Symbolic: the ordered world of language, law, and paternal authority.
2. The Semiotic: pre-verbal drives such as rhythm, instinct, and the maternal voice. Love, in
Kristeva's thought, is not a romantic bridge but a subversive force19. In motherhood, the body
breaks through the symbolic order, as in the singing mother who blends language and body. In
queer desire or protest art, new meanings emerge. The abject, such as menstruation or death,
disrupts the illusion of control and confronts us with the chaos of Mater.

4 Irigaray's Divine Feminine: Beyond the Bridge
Luce Irigaray critiques Western metaphysics for lacking a feminine transcendence. In Speculum of the Other Woman, she argues that the woman functions as a mirror for masculine desires, devoid of her own subjectivity. Her solution is a "divine feminine" that unites body and spirit, reimagining love as reciprocal recognition rather than an instrument of domination.Irigaray writes: "The woman is not raw material for masculine transcendence she is transcendence". Her advocacy for a feminine morphology of meaning emphasizes a plural, fluid language that breaks with phallocentric logic.

5 Heidegger and Da-sein: The Bodily Ground of Being
Martin Heidegger's concept of Da-sein (being-there) provides an ontological basis for transcending the Mater-Pater dichotomy. Da-sein reminds us that all meaning is rooted in the body. Mater is not a "lower" layer but the primary experience of existence. Pater (logos) is a response to this ground, not a replacement for it. Heidegger's ontology invites a revaluation of the bodily as the origin of meaning.

6 Conclusion: Love as Recognition of Chaos
The solution to the Mater-Pater dichotomy lies not in reconciliation but in recognizing their unity:
1. Redefining Value: Life (Mater) is the immeasurable ground, not a resource for extraction.
2. Decolonizing Love: Love is not a romantic mask for domination but an exercise in mutual
exposure, as in Kristeva's semiotic revolt.
3. Renewing Metaphysics: Irigaray's divine feminine shows that transcendence is not an
escape from the body but through the body. True metaphysics, as this article argues, begins
where the word bleeds and the body thinks. Love is the courage to embrace this cycle not as a
bridge, but as home.

Appendix: Summary of Speculum of the Other Woman by Luce Irigaray
Luce Irigaray'sSpeculum of the Other Woman (1974) is a groundbreaking philosophical work
that radically questions the conceptualization of femininity, language, psychoanalysis, and
philosophy in the Western tradition, particularly through critiques of Plato, Freud, and Hegel.
Key Ideas
1. The Woman as the 'Other' of Man: Irigaray argues that in Western thought, the woman is
not conceived as an autonomous subject but as a derivative or mirror of the man, defined
solely in relation to his discourse and desire.
2. The Speculum Metaphor: The "speculum" refers to both a medical instrument for internal
examination and a mirror that reflects. Women, in masculine philosophy, serve as a mirror for
male self-reflection, denied their own subjectivity or language.
3. Critique of Plato, Freud, and Hegel:
○ Plato: In his cave allegory, Irigaray sees the masculine "Idea" contrasted with the feminine
chaos of matter.
○ Freud: She critiques his theory of penis envy and female sexuality as a lack, proposing
instead a plural, diffuse feminine sexuality.
○ Hegel: She rejects his master-slave dialectic, where the woman serves as a mere stage in
masculine self-becoming.
4. Language and Sexual Difference: Irigaray advocates for a rethinking of language beyond
phallocentric logic, proposing a feminine morphology of meaning that is plural, fluid, and
diffuse.
Style and Method
The book is renowned for its poetic, fragmentary, and associative style, employing pastiche,
parody, irony, and repetition to subvert masculine discourses from within46.
Influence and Significance
Speculum is a foundational text in French feminist philosophy, influencing feminist theory,
psychoanalysis, literary studies, and queer theory. It is controversial for its complexity,
potential essentialism, and the question of whether its proposed feminine language can truly
exist outside masculine logic.
Conclusion
Irigaray's
Speculum calls for a reinvention of feminine subjectivity, sexuality, and language, opening
space for the unthought and unsaid: the feminine as inexpressible difference.

References
[1] Aristotle. (n.d.). Generation of Animals. [Translated work].
[2] Marx, K. (1867). Das Kapital. Hamburg: Verlag von Otto Meissner.
[3] Kristeva, J. (1982). Powers of Horror: An Essay on Abjection. New York: Columbia
University Press.
[4] Kristeva, J. (1974). Revolution in Poetic Language. New York: Columbia University
Press.
[5] Butler, J. (1990). Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity. New York:
Routledge.
[6] Irigaray, L. (1974). Speculum of the Other Woman. Ithaca: Cornell University Press.
[7] Heidegger, M. (1927). Being and Time. [Translated by J. Macquarrie & E. Robinson,
1962].
Oxford: Blackwell.

                                       


Review of "Mater, Pater, and Metaphysical Love:
A Philosophical Exploration of Being, Value, and Revolt"

In this submission, the author Martin Sjardijn presents a bold philosophical exploration that challenges entrenched dichotomies in Western thought. By drawing from a range of thinkers such as Aristotle, Julia Kristeva, Luce Irigaray, and Martin Heidegger, the paper seeks to redefine traditional metaphysical narratives. The central thesis—that love can serve as the vehicle to transcend the long-standing Mater-Pater divide—promises to contribute to contemporary philosophical discourse on gender, ontology, and value.

Overview

The manuscript investigates the historical metaphysical division between 'Mater' and 'Pater,' exploring how this binary influences perceptions of being, value, and love. Through the works of Kristeva and Irigaray, the author proposes love as a semiotic and reciprocal force capable of bridging these divides. Central to this exploration is the proposition that the chaotic and corporeal 'Mater' articulates the foundation of meaning, which, when embraced, offers a more inclusive understanding of metaphysics. By incorporating Heidegger’s concept of Da-sein, the author aims to reframe bodily existence as central to ontological inquiry.

Relevant References

Including a clear literature review helps reviewers quickly see what's new and why it matters, which can speed up the review and improve acceptance chances. The following references were selected because they relate closely to the topics and ideas in your submission. They may provide helpful context, illustrate similar methods, or point to recent developments that can strengthen how your work is positioned within the existing literature.

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Strengths

The manuscript exhibits a robust engagement with significant philosophical texts, providing a fresh perspective on the implications of metaphysical dualisms rooted in gender. The use of Kristeva and Irigaray as central figures offers an innovative lens, embracing feminist critiques to challenge classical philosophical paradigms. The interdisciplinary nature of the work—spanning philosophy, feminism, and ontology—lends it considerable depth. The re-evaluation of love as a transformative cultural and metaphysical force is both intriguing and ambitious, promising new conversations in the field.

Major Comments

Methodology

The author’s methodological approach blends textual analysis with philosophical reinterpretation, which successfully navigates complex themes. However, the analysis could be strengthened by clarifying the methodological criteria for selecting specific thinkers and theories. Additionally, exploring counterarguments from contemporary philosophers might enrich the discourse and address potential criticisms.

Framing and Clarity

While the manuscript presents compelling arguments, some sections—particularly those addressing technical philosophical concepts—may benefit from clearer definitions and contextual explanations. For instance, more explicit definitions of ‘symbolic’ and ‘semiotic’ as employed by Kristeva would enhance accessibility for readers not versed in her work.

Theoretical Integration

The integration of Heidegger’s ontology with the critique of traditional metaphysics is a bold synthesis but requires clearer articulation. Further elucidation on how Heidegger’s Da-sein specifically reconfigures the Mater-Pater dichotomy within a feminist framework would diversify the theoretical dialogue.

Minor Comments

Figures and Diagrams

Consider the inclusion of diagrams that map the proposed metaphysical relationships among Mater, Pater, and love. Visual aids could assist in conceptualizing complex ideas and enhance reader comprehension.

Terminology and Language

The manuscript’s style occasionally drifts towards neologisms and complex syntax. Simplifying language while maintaining intellectual rigor would broaden its appeal across diverse audiences.

Reviewer Commentary

This work resonates with interdisciplinary potential, bridging gaps between feminist theory, classical philosophy, and modern ontological inquiries. It presents an opportunity to provoke thought and discussion around the evolving interpretations of metaphysical love and gender dichotomies. The challenge lies in persuading a traditionally rigid discipline to embrace such transformative ideas, which might necessitate addressing the paper's perceived complexities in communication.

Summary Assessment

Overall, the submission offers a thought-provoking contribution that expands the philosophical landscape concerning metaphysical dualities and the notion of love. By challenging entrenched gender binaries with a fresh interpretive framework, it engages with ongoing scholarly conversations about identity, ontology, and value. Its success will depend on its ability to communicate complex ideas clearly and its responsiveness to potential theoretical critiques from traditionalist perspectives.


In final reflection, this manuscript provides fertile ground for intellectual expansion and debate on long-standing issues within metaphysical and feminist philosophy. Its ambition to position love as a harmonizing force between chaotic and ordered understandings of being is both commendable and challenging, warranting it a thorough and open-minded engagement from the academic community.